Sunday, February 15, 2009

Maybe he's just not that into you...

Just from the title of this blog, I bet you can guess where my inspiration came from. Needless to say, it's a subject that has gotten me thinking...why are we so concerned about over analyzing everything people do in relationships? I guess as girls, we are conditioned to believe that when a guy says something, there is a lot more to what he is saying than just the words coming out of his mouth. However, the only reason we believe this is because we, as girls, do the complete opposite. That is, we cannot be direct. Sorry, but you have to face the truth. We try to avoid hurting people's feelings, confrontation, whatever, by beating around the bush. We say something, but we mean something else. I'm not saying that I'm not guilty of this too, but what's the point? Guys are direct. What they say is what they mean, simple as that. So, now that we have established that, lets move on...

As I said, boys are direct. If they want to call you, they will. If they want to text you, they will. If they want anything to do with you, they will make it happen. If you are waiting for one of the things said above, but have yet to see any progress, guess what honey...yup, you know what I'm gonna say, he's probably just not that into you. So next time you're at a party and have consumed a bit too much, and you start to get that slushy, mushy feeling in your stomach when you see couples all around you, don't grab your phone and call that potential guy because it will only lead to bad things. Instead think WWPCD, what would Princess Camilla (hint hint: she's the princess of Wales) do. Would she call that guy sobbing about how he is such a jerk and how he should care more about her? Would she check her phone every ten minutes to see if he texted her back? Would she text him AGAIN just because he didn't respond to the first text? Clearly, the answer to all these questions is NO. So, that means you shouldn't do any of these things either, becuase your just as much of a princess as she is...kinda.

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